Let’s just get straight down to business, shall we?  My dad has encouraged me to apply for any and every job that strikes my fancy, even if I don’t have the experience level that they are looking for.  He tells me that if it’s meant to be, it will be.  He also says that it is true they look at experience, but they also look at where you’ve been and what you’ve been doing.  And then he finishes up with “the worst that can happen is you won’t get the job.” And this is so true.  I know it’s easier said than done, but I thought it might help to put things into perspective. 

As for your job on the whole, are you even doing something related to your field of study in college?  I’m just curious is all.  Do you enjoy your job?  I mean really enjoy it, or is it just something to be doing in regards to your current situation?  Really ask yourself that and make sure you know the answer before you make any huge decisions.

That was really mean of your boss to say that to you!  I would have probably given him a sassy comeback.  Especially if he had a bad comb-over, British teeth, and dressed like a used car salesman...not saying that he does or anything...but, you never know.  I guess you could keep a neutral blazer-like jacket (you know something hip, trendy, but professional looking) in your cubicle to throw on over t-shirts in the event of a meeting on casual Thursday...that’s the only thing I can think of that would alleviate the situation where you boss comes in and jumps down your throat about dress.  But seriously...that’s way more dressed up than people get in my department at work. 

Ok, I’m going to go because this is long.  Just follow your heart and listen for the still, small voice, cause you and I both know that God doesn’t use the telephone often.  Love ya <3

I’m so glad you shared!  I know it’s hard sharing the nitty gritty sometimes, but dont you feel a little better because of it?  I’m sorry you’re feeling unsettled at work.  You’re in a hard situation.  I just thought of this, God does have a telephone book, His Word.  I’ve got this neat sheet of “emergency numbers” I kept with me at college.  I’ll find it and send a copy to you.  It helped me to remember we do have a direct line to God whenever we want it.  If I were in your situation I’d apply to the job (you already know this), but I’m not you and maybe because you’re so unsettled it’s not God’s will.  Maybe there’s something else just around the corner that you cant see yet that’s 100 million times better and more suitable for you and all this unsettlement (is that a word?) is God’s way of saying be still.  You are in my prayers.

Regarding the comment about your clothes ... I do hope he’s not one that wears the tiny polo shirts with the beer gut.  Further more!, if the meeting were so important he should have told you a day early so you’d know to dress up!  Your outfit sounds cute anyway, and I am sure you didnt make a bad impression because of it. 

By the way, I had a dream last night that Brad and I were visiting Oklahoma and we just happened to run into you in town (dont know what town, but it was a nice little town. =)) Maybe that’s a sign haha.

Have a lovely evening!

Boo!Well I’m certainly glad that you could get this off your chest and hopefully that helped just a little bit. I can’t believe you’re having to work so much overtime with zero copensation. That’s just not right. I agree with everyone else, Brittny. Go ahead and apply. Think of it the same way you thought of saying “hi” to your new best friends ever. What’s the worst that could happen? Sure...they tell you NO. I know that no one likes that feeling...but that’s not so bad. Think of how good it might be if they say yes.

I’m sorry you’ll be stuck at work this weekend...again. :(

Hope you’re feeling better soon!

Yuck yuck yuck.  Working on the weekends is so not cool.  I hate that you and Will are not getting to see each other very much.  I know how much that sucks. 
As for applying to the new position, don’t let the 3-5 years experience requirement keep you from applying.  I’ve worked in HR, and I have seen people with NO experience get hired for jobs that require a certain amount of time...just because of something silly like the person plays the same sport as the hiring manager!  With the experience you DO have and the fact that they KNOW you can do the job (obviously), coupled with the fact that it could take FOREVER to fill the position..I’m sure they will be more lenient on the “requirements” they have advertised.  It is too bad that God won’t just call us up on the phone and tell us what he wants though!  That would make life sooooo much easier!  Good luck with all of it.  Whatever you do, I hope it all works out for the best for you and Will.

I say go for it and apply for that job.  As much as they are overworking you anyway, you definitely deserve the raise and the promotion!!  I am sorry you have had to do that much weekend work, that really sucks.

I will be praying for you and the decisions you need to make.  I understand where you’re coming from because at my last job we were constantly working OT and on the weekends.  I hated it!!!  It definitely brings down the morale at work.  Personally I think you should just apply for the job.  The worst thing that could happen is they say no and you’re still where you are today.  I hope the rest of you day goes or went by fast and that you can enjoy a few moments with Will! =)

I’d apply for the position if I were you.  Of course, I’m a witch, and if I didn’t get it, I’d tell them that either I am qualified for the position or I’m not, and if I’m not--well, then I’m CLEARLY not qualified to do all that extra work, either.  I just feel that you’re giving them a whole lot, and you deserve to be acknowledged for that. 

What I guess I mean is, it’s only a job.  You should be acknowledged for the amount of work you put in.  You won’t know if they will if you don’t apply.  If you don’t get it, then you should start looking to find ways to spend less time there and more time with the people that DO acknowledge you.

Yup, you knew I’d comment on this one right!

OK, first of all.  APPLY ALREADY!  I mean, you’re already doing the work, so you might as well get the pay and the title too.  It’s not like you’re applying for a job at another company or trying to leave the area.  you won’t even be switching desks!  What’s the worst that happens?  You don’t get it—and maybe you consider moving on elsewhere at some point where you would get what you deserve.

As to the “comment” made by your boss.  Next time he says that, confront him.  “What do you mean by that?”.  I’ve noticed (especially in our worlds) that often time times men will say things to women that they won’t say to men.  Especially younger women.  They view us more as “little girls” or feel they can intimidate us or that we’ll be all meek and not speak up.  I’m not saying to get smart back, or get a fight going, but don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself and when he “apologizes” or says “I’m stressed” tell him, that’s fine, but it’s no reason to take it out on you.

Hang in there!!!  I hope it gets better soon.

I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time at work lately. I hate having to go into work on my days off and it’s only for a couple of hours but it’s right in the middle of the day!

I say apply for the job. Like everybody else said the worst that can happen is that you don’t get it. And if you don’t then you know the job wasn’t meant for you. But there’s always that chance that you will get it! Go for it!

Good luck with your decision. I’ll be praying for you.

Go for it, Brittny! Like everyone and their mom has already said, the worst that can happen is that you won’t get it! They’re already working you to death, it sounds like, and that’s just not fair. Don’t let them take advantage of you, especially without the pay.

I know it will work out, sweetie - keep us updated, and good luck!

I was in a very similar situation.  For almost two years I have been doing the work of a controller, but I without the title or pay.  I never said anything, just went with the flow.  After the controller was fired I assumed even more resposibilities.  Unfortunately, no one seemed to notice (or so it seemed).  I was devestated when they hired the replacement from outside of the company.  It was so irritating because I knew more than him, could do it faster, and he got the credit for my work (or so it seemed).  But, finally finally finally things have changed.  Two days ago I was offered a position as the assistant controller.  I think part of my problem and the company’s reluctance in promoting me is that they had no idea that I even wanted a position with more responsibility!  So, make it known....in giant pink letters that you want that job and say it over and over again.

Oh, the comment about your clothing choice?  That is super crappy.  Your boss may benefit from a little nap during the day.  I would think he will be in a noticably better mood after a little hour long snooze.

Good Luck!

Wow girl!!! You have been working way too much!!! I think you need to apply for the job that you seem to be doing already!!! How could they say no to you????

Sorry you’re busy!!  :(

Go for the position!!  Good luck! 

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