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The Kitchen Sink

There’s nothing like a good old LOOONG life update about every facet of one’s life, right? Yes, every facet- including the kitchen sink.  I figured it was time for me to write about some of the things going on in my life. Not just for something to occupy my time, but mainly so 30 years from now I can look back and say things like, “Oh yeeeaaaah. That’s right! I remember now,” and, “Wow, I sure did say ‘freaking’ a lot!”

Let’s get freaking started!

I miss P.

A lot.

She’s totally living some awesome summer life right now, and I’m so very proud and excited for her- but I still miss her. If you’re just joining me, my sister P was chosen to serve as a Congressional page this month. It’s a really big deal and I’m so excited for her opportunity- but I still miss her (btw- Hi Nicole! I hope you got my letter.)!

Apparently her roommate’s mom is a representative, so the two of them have been chosen to do a few extra things here and there (ie: my sister is getting preferential treatment. I’m okay with that.), which has made her time that much more interesting. Not only that, but my parents signed a waiver for her to stay off campus on the weekends, so she goes and stays with her roommate’s family. How much fun!?

They work them like Iditarod sled dogs (or so she says), so she hasn’t had time to talk. I did get a text message from her this week, though. It made my day. We texted back and forth for a little while, but she had to go to sleep. I have some juicy gossip about Miss P (it’s boy related), but I better honor my sister code.

Speaking of- her boyfriend Z wrote the sweetest letter to me about her yesterday! It was about how he just needed to tell someone he missed her, and how he can’t wait to see her and how he wishes she could text more. Ugh, it hurt my heart! I texted her on the way to work this morning to tell her that Z loves her tons. See, P has been battling what to do about Z. He’s going to college in England this summer, and well, I’m sure we’ve all been in a similar situation during our teen years.

Wow- what a ramble about P! Sorry guys! I guess you get the point that I miss her!

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I ran into our date’s mom yesterday. It was funny. She’s a rather blunt lady. She told me how her daughter said they had a good time with us and would have to get together again sometime. Then she immediately followed with, “I hear you guys have two dogs that keep you busy.”

“Yes, we do! Yes, they sure do keep us busy.”

“Yeah, well my daughter isn’t much of a dog person...” She then went off on a story about how they had a family dog and the daughter rarely touched it, etc.

I just kind of nervously laughed and said, “Okay. Good to know if we ever have them over.”

Ha ha, how funny. So, I’m not sure how to take that. I wonder if the couple looked at each other with big bug eyes and in a terrified whisper said, “They’re dog people.” ha ha

The daughter (hmm, we have to give her a code name...) did email me this week about getting together again, so that’s a good thing, right?

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I like the new Maroon 5 song, but I don’t know the words to the chorus except, “I don’t believe it’s true, anymore, anymo-or-or-ore,” so I sing that part over and over until the end of the chorus. Oh- and I also know the “So this is goodbye” part. That’s about it. If you rode in the car with me, you really might consider ear plugs.

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I worked out at my camp’s gym this week. I figured it would be good for me to walk on the treadmill three times a week there, and then go to my gym and do the weights. By the way, it really REALLY sucks trying to work out during a lunch hour (I think I’ll post about that next week). I try so hard not to break a sweat (which is virtually impossible because, like Sarah R, I’m a “sweater").

Today, however, I’m going to sweat to my little heart’s content because I’m taking my lunch at the end of the day. I’m going to run on the treadmill 40 minutes there, go home, and do 30 more minutes of cardio and then lift weights. I’ve decided I need to be lifting heavier weights. I lift heavier than all the other women at my gym (ha, mainly because they’re not lifting much at all- just like 5 pounds most of the time). I have it in my mind that 15 reps is better than 12 or 9 or even less because it’s a higher number, but I know that’s not always true. I have to get that out of my head and be willing to increase my lifting weight and decrease the reps. So, that’s the challenge to myself today. If you’re twitching by what I just said, don’t worry, I won’t “bulk.” A lot of women I’ve talked to about weight training freak out when I say the word “heavy weights” because they’re afraid of bulking up. Rest assure, we don’t have enough testosterone in our bodies to do that. It’s nearly impossible to look manly without using some type of steroid. So- heavier weights does not equal big bulk. That’s my PSA for the day.

Did I tell you Will is kicking butt working out right now!?! I’m so proud of him. You might remember that his dad has diabetes and heart disease, and I’ve been concerned a long time now about Will. Well, there is this trainer that he works with that has been dying to get his hands on Will. This trainer guy is awesome (I wish I could hire him!). He helped this one lady in the military lose 40 pounds in just a crazy amount of time. He is a major butt kicker. Will agreed to give this guy his lunch hour to help him lose weight and get in shape, and he’s done a great job (this guy is doing this all for free too) Will lost a little over 5 pounds the first week! I was so excited for him. He would totally kill me if he knew I was typing about this to the world, but I just can’t help but feel so proud of his diligence to break the cycle of diabetes. Okay- I’ll get off this subject. Like I said- he would freak if he knew I was writing about it.

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My summer swap partner Heather got her gifts this week! I was so very excited to hear that!

Sorry, Jenny, I have to cheat and post this a day earlier! smile I won’t be able to post tomorrow, so I thought I’d slip it out a day early. Sorry for the leak! It’s me.

She emailed me yesterday to tell me she got it. I won’t tell you guys any more, though. Promise. I look forward to getting my package soon too! I’ll be sure to post as soon as it comes in.

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My good friends Sarah L., Theresa, and I have come up with a way to get to know each other better than we do now (because- it can be hard to stay close in freaking Kuwait!). Sarah came up with a Question of the Day in which we each take a turn asking the others a question about themselves that normally wouldn’t come up in our normal conversation. I’ve had a lot of fun getting to know my friends better.

Today it was my turn to think of a question for the girls. I wanted to post it because maybe you guys have something to add too, and I thought it’d be interesting to hear what you have to say. Ever since Mrs. BFW’s post about the things she wants to do before she turns 30, I’ve been thinking about the same thing! So, I asked the girls:

- Do you have a list?
-If you do, what are 5 things on that list? If you don’t, what are 5 things that would be on the list?

I’ll go ahead and share what I wrote to them:

No, I do not have a list, but below are 5 things that would be on the list:

1.Change a life/lives with the gifts God has given me. I know this sounds ambiguous and HUGE, but I’ve made it my prayer to live my life in terms of eternity and not just the here and now. Besides, it would be all about God and not me so I know it’s possible.
2. Have and maintain 21.5% body fat (I’m at 26% now. 4.5% more to go. Ugh)
3. Go on a Mediterranean cruise.
4. Play the cello again.
5. Sing- somewhere, anywhere. It’s my biggest fear. Perhaps you two will get me wound up and karaoke with me this December? Ummm.- nah. I think I’ll put this one off a few more years- for all our sakes. smile

So those are a few things I shared that would be on my list. If you feel like it- feel free to share yours. Heck- maybe I’ll come up with a long list of my own after reading your guys’!

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I’m addicted to Wheat Thins. Note- they’re not healthy if I eat an entire box in a day and a half!

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The weekend looks to be “good.” I know good is a boring word, but well, good is how our weekend will be. I have a hair appointment tomorrow morning, so there goes half the day. They take a long time at my salon. It’d be okay if I could sit around and talk to my stylist like we’re best friends, but the ladies don’t talk at my place. Boo.

Afterwards I’m not really sure what we’ll do. I think at some point tomorrow we’re going out with my parents for father’s day, so that should be fun. Will and I actually got invited to a social function this weekend too! However,my sweet husband tends to be a stick in the mud at times. He didn’t want to go. I’m a little disappointed. Why can’t we just show up for 15 minutes and say hello on our way to dinner, you know? Well, one valid reason is because they live almost half an hour away. That’s really the only one though. Sigh, I just had to vent a little!

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It’s hot.

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Wow. If you’re still reading, kudos. I wish you a bright and sunnny day! I’m so glad we have this little community of friends. <3

I’m off to enjoy the weekend!

PS- I almost forgot! I’ve had a couple people ask me how to leave comments on my blog. You simply click “Share the Love” and it will bring you to the comment box!

TEST! Please work.

Posted by  on  06/20  at  05:17 AM

that is so sweet how you miss your sister.  i miss my sisters more and more too.  i can’t wait for vacation in about 5 weeks when I can at least see 2 of them again.  that’s such an exciting thing she is doing.  what an experience that must be, and it will look great on a resume one day! 

and as for my 5 things…
1.  have another baby.  yes, i want one.  but i want to do it before i am 30, and that’s just about 13 months away!  at least I can get pg before i am 30… then it’s not as big a rush.

2.  be a sahm.  again, a lofty goal for a woman who will be 30 in 13 months… but that’s a God thing, if you ask me.

3.  speak in front of a ladies group at church… i don’t know what i’d talk on, but that’s a god-thing too.

4.  go on a cruise or a tropical vacation of some sort.  need to hang onto this job to do that though… hmmm… that messes up #2

5.  be more like Christ.  and at the rate I’m going, I should be… even if it’s only just the slightest little bit.  the Holy Spirit is growing and changing me everyday, and I’m addicted!!

Thanks for asking… that was a great question!!  You should post more of those, and we can all get to know each other!

Posted by Annie  on  06/20  at  08:03 AM

How the heck is Sara L.??I have the link to her old blog (the dog being found, returned to owners).
P’s summer sounds like so much fun, and you care so much for your sis. I’m at odds with my bro right now. . .but at one time I imagine I’d feel the same way.
Apparently dog/cat people are percieved differentally than the rest of the population. . why is that?!? I love my animals to death, they give me unconditional love and never get mad if I decdied not to play with then EVERY moment of everyday or pet other dogs/cats. Sometimes I like them better than the “friends” I have, lol.
Maroon 5’s got a catchy tune, but I’m so sure about the lyrics....just not something I’m feeling.
As for the “5 things by 30” question, I can’t even begin to answer that. . .and this post is getting kinda long. Have a great day/weekend!!

Posted by Beth G  on  06/20  at  09:26 AM

so i totally had that maroon 5 song in my head and it freaked me out to read that! I was singing in my head when i read it! WEIRD!!!!

You should have your summer swap goodies soon! But probably not tomorrow! :( sorry! so much has been going on. I hope you love them though and that they were worth the wait.

Posted by Mrs. M  on  06/20  at  09:37 AM

I love the Things to do before I turn 30 list idea smile Here are my 5 things:

1. Have 4 more kids (yes, we want 5 kids, and already have their names picked out!)
2. Nathan and I both be able to retire and be financially independant so we can spend our time with each other and our kids.
3. Buy our dream house.
4. Travel to Europe for 6 months.
5. Grow in my relationship with God.  I look forward to seeing what He has for us!!

I’m sorry you’re missing your sister!  Her boyfriend sounds really sweet! smile

Posted by Audrey  on  06/20  at  11:27 AM

1. Get married.
2. Have a definite career
3. Move out of my parent’s house.
4. Get back to my sophmore year of high school weight so I can get back into those size 3 levi’s hard leg jeans.
5. Become a rock star.

Posted by Jacqueline  on  06/20  at  12:23 PM

I am still loving my package!! I can’t wait to post about it tomorrow!
Let’s see i am already 31 and heading into 32.

My big thing for me before I turned 30 was to do a triathalon. I did a mini one in Chicago. Learned to swim--huge for me. I felt strong, proud, confident and able to leave my 20’s where they were and filled with fun stories. Ready to face the 30’s it fun, sad, challenging times ahead.

The best thing I have ever done besides marrying my husband.

I guess I will have to think of things to do before I am 35 or have children...hmmmmmm--need to think about that

Posted by  on  06/20  at  12:59 PM

Hmmm, 5 things before I turn 30, that’s an awesome question!

1. Get my CA and travel Europe for 4 weeks afterwards to celebrate - including attending a Formula 1 car race (yeah, that’s kind of 3 things, but they all tie in)

2. Pay off our mortgage, sell our current house and build our custom dream home.

3. Have one (ONE!) kid grin

4. Travel to Australia, South America and Africa

5. Get back into shape and run a half Ironman Triathalon

Six years to go - better get started smile

Posted by Angela  on  06/20  at  03:01 PM

haha!  I was wondering how to leave a commentsmile I’m an idiot! 
My list:
1. To have my student loans paid off!
2. To have a career that I love, and that can at least pay the bills.
3. To be truly happy with my appearance!
4. To have an air conditioned car!
5. To better myself mentally, meaning by learning new stuff everyday.

Posted by  on  06/20  at  04:47 PM

I feel the same way about my brothers that you do about your sister. My baby bro moves next weekend and I’m so sad!

My five things to do before I’m 30:

1. Move out of state and buy a home.

2. Have two more kids.

3. Be able to stay at home with my kids.

4. Own my own in-home daycare.

5. Continue to build my relationship with God and be more comfortable sharing my faith with others.

Posted by  on  06/20  at  05:38 PM

I’m sorry you miss P!  Amazing opportunity for her, though.  How fun is that? 

And I’m sorry it’s hot there.  I’m sure that by “hot” you mean swealther-awful-no-good-might-die hot.  That sucks.

Sounds like you’re working out well, though.  Of course, to me...anything more htan sitting around all day is a workout!  smile

Five things....

1.  Be a good Mom to my kids (hopefully plural!!)

2.  Be a good Christian and help our church grow.  I’m not sure how to do this, because, well, we live in the MIDDLE OF NOWHERE, but I like to start by working with the youth.  Of course, my time is getting more and more limited...haha!  But maybe by the time I’m 30 (I have almost 6 1/2 years) the kid(s) will be more self-entertaining and I’ll actually have MORE time. lol

3.  Be finished family-building.  I don’t know for sure what that means, exactly.  We are still unsure if we will try to get pregnant/adopt again after these (hopefully) two.  Playing it by ear!

4.  Go back to Kona, Hawaii and take the kid(s) and maybe the parents.

5.  Have a pool or at least be close to having a pool!  But a lot of that depends on what we decide as far as #3.  Because kids aren’t cheap around here!  smile

Posted by JessPond  on  06/20  at  06:46 PM

I am already 32 so I guess I better have finished my list already!!

How awesome for your sister and her job as a page.  What a great opportunity.  And her boyfriend sounds like such a sweetie.  Ah, the emotions of youth!

Posted by Jenny  on  06/21  at  08:42 AM

brittny - i found you!
i though for sure i lost you in the shuffle from when everyone jumped ship off the nest! i hope you are doing well and will start to get back into what you are up to! i wish you well...oh and i went private on my new blog, so email me if you want

Posted by  on  06/21  at  12:09 PM

I understand your sister love. I miss my sisters so much sometimes! Since we have moved I hardly ever see them anymore. Good post today! I like to read posts when people do a what’s going on kind of thing.

My 5 things:

1. be the best mom ever. i want to raise my children to be great people and know that they are always loved-unconditionally.

2.finally become a nurse.

3.go to greece

4.get a tatoo( still haven’t outgrown that idea)

5.get to and maintain my wedding weight

have a wonderful day!

Posted by  on  06/21  at  12:17 PM

Ok, I think you covered everything in that post!!!

I can understand why you miss your sister.  You two seem so close and I am sure it is hard on you for her to be away!! What a great opportunity for her though!!!

It is great that Will has already lost 5 lbs. I am sure his family history is a great motivator in helping him to improve his health!!

You will have to let us know if you go out with that couple again.  Bummer that they are not dog people......maybe you should invite them over!! smile

Have a great day!!

Posted by  on  06/21  at  12:27 PM

HELLO Brittny!

It’s actually not your mom - it’s Sarah.  I don’t know why I put that, I guess I’m just feeling silly.

I now know how to reply to your posts, so disregard the question in my email please!

This was a really good post for me to read because it had so much meaty info in it.  I didn’t know Will was working out again.  Good for him!  I bet that will make him happier - it always does it for me.

Talk to you later!
Sarah L.

Posted by  on  06/22  at  01:44 PM

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I'm B-Love. I've just returned to America after spending three years in Kuwait with my husband Mr. B-Love and our two maltese, Boz and Lucy. We recently added two more doggies to our family, Rocky and Teddy. I love weight training, OU football, and lazy weekends. Buckle up and get ready for my constant embarrassing moments, continual madness at a new job, and my daily effort to rely on Christ while adjusting to life back in the real world.


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