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Love Connection

Do you remember Love Connection? I can remember my mom watching that show when I was younger.

It was hosted by a guy named Chuck Woolery. He would have a man or woman come on the show and choose a date, in hopes of a “love connection.” For the sake of this post, we’ll say it’s a woman. The woman gets to see three clips of potential dates. The audience then chooses who they think is the right date for the woman.

The woman, who had already gone on the blind date, introduces who she chose. Chuck then interviews both about what happened on the date. Sometimes it was a disaster. Sometimes they were planning the wedding. Other times it was just so-so. No matter what, it was always an entertaining show.

Guys, that’s what I needed last weekend.

I needed good old Chuck to bring Will and I out in front of a live studio audience (Ooh! I wonder if we’d get to sit on those awesome heart shaped couches!? I hope, I hope!) where we would then proceed to pick from three dates, hoping to find the perfect match. The couple we would want to spend the rest of our lives with (ha ha) How fun would that be!?! Hopefully ONE of them would be the perfect match for us, right!?!

Right??

Sigh.

Incase you’re wondering, there wasn’t a love connection over breakfast. It wasn’t awful, but we weren’t planning on making them godparents either. It was just okay. I think both sides would agree. I also think “just okay” is normal. Very, very normal.

The couple was nice, I would hope they’d say the same thing about us. However, we’re opposite in a lot of ways. Ha- you should have seen the look on their faces when we told them we went to the Super Bowl this year. It was if one wanted to say,"Oh my gosh, honey. Quick! Think of a way out! The signal! Give me the signal!” It was funny.

Everything went fine. No crazy stories, really. They were late and I feared they took one look at us and stood us up. Will simply wanted to go in and start eating without them, so I had to explain the mannerisms and rules of dating. We waited 15 minutes and thankfully, they hadn’t stood us up. They had parking problems.

The conversation was fine. Nothing wonderful, but then again it was the first time we’d ever seen each other. Mostly, the usual initial, “Where are you from?” and “How long have you been married?” type questions. I will say, though, on the way there I was talking to Will about conversation topics and I said, “Obviously we’ll ask them how they met, right?” Will just looked at me and said that was dumb. No one asks that on a first date, he said- which I totally argued. Everyone asks that on a first date! We went back and forth on the way there and I finally decided fine! I’ll can the question.

I almost died right on the table when the husband asked US the “how’d you meet” question. I kicked Will under the table and gave him an I-told-you-so look. Too funny.

So, that was the date. Okay. Fine. Alright. C+. I think both couples realize young married friends are slim pickin’ over here, so we should jump on what we’ve got. I liked them. Hopefully they liked us.

Would we see them again? Yes. Hopefully they would say the same. I think they would. In fact, they even hinted at getting together next weekend. I don’t think we’ll be able to this weekend (you know- our super demanding schedules- cough), but I think we’d be up for the next.

“The Date” made me realize two things. The first is that sometimes I think Will and I do better solo. When it’s just me and Will we have this perfect dynamic, but when we add another couple in the mix it’s not as perfect. However, I also realized that I think I’m ready to start “dating” other couples, or at least am open to the idea. Doing it here is almost impossible, but hopefully one day when we go home we’ll have that “love connection” I was talking about earlier.

So, sorry guys. No good stories. You’re going to think I’m terrible- but I was actually hoping things would either take a huge nose dive or that the couple would be the best people we’ve ever met in our lives, simply so I’d have something to post about (look at me! I’m obsessed with blogging!). Neither happened. I’m okay with that. We had a good time and met a couple we might go out with again.

So here’s to finding the perfect couple! 

OK, I have to admit I was a little dissapointed there wasn’t any drama on your date!! It’s too bad there wasn’t a “love connection”.  At least it wasn’t terrible!!!

Your posts made me want to get out there with Mike and date again!!! Here’s to everyone findnig that “right match”!!!

Have a great rest of your week!!!

Posted by  on  06/17  at  10:33 AM

Drama always makes for an interesting entry - I’m glad it went well enough.  I always hate the ackward, “umm, so how did you guys meet?” get-to-know each other type questions.

I know what you mean about you and Will not quite “meshing” as well with other people around, DH and I experience that too.

I hope your next “date” goes well!

Posted by Angela  on  06/17  at  10:55 AM

I love that you were hoping for something dramatic so you could post it.  haha!!

I’m glad it went well...I mean, at least you didn’t want to kill yourselves, right?  smile

Posted by JessPond  on  06/17  at  05:51 PM

Well, maybe you can chalk it up to first date jitters? I mean, did you know Will was The One after the first date? Maybe you guys will really “click” later on. But at least you have some good couple friends to have in case you feel like doing something on a boring weekend! <grin

Posted by Sarah R  on  06/17  at  06:15 PM

I’m glad that it was at least ok.  I think James and I met a couple this weekend, by the way.  Actually, we met them a few months ago when they started coming to our small group, but at the group dinner Friday night, James talked almost exclusively with the husband, and I talked a lot to the wife, so it was pretty cool.  The only thing is, they are old enough to be my parents… weird huh?  Well, that’s ok.  I’ve always gotten along well with older people, so that’s fine.  And if the husband gets James out of the house to go fishing, even better!!

Posted by Annie  on  06/18  at  04:55 AM

Oh Brittny--your stories always totally crack me up! I feel you on the couple dating. Mostly I’d rather J and I sit on the sofa and watch HGTV together than go through couple dating. Luckily we have 3 great couples that we enjoy spending time with. In all 3 the ladies are among my best friends and luckily the men all get along and enjoy each other’s company as well. I hope you guys get to find friends in the breakfast couple!

Posted by Mrs. M  on  06/18  at  05:52 AM

Britt,
I thought of you this weekend when we were supposed to meet Jay’s co-worker and his wife. I spent a little extra time in the mirror before we left and I tried to be aware of saying somehting totally stupid. I think I did pretty good, and our date went well. The only thing that was iffy was when all three of them started talking about work and people I have no idea who they are. Other than that, we may have our very own new datable couple! I’m glad yours wasn’t a total disaster. Maybe the second date is the trick to finding your perfect dating couple. LOL! XOXO

Posted by Jenny  on  06/18  at  10:05 AM

I understand the feeling of “this needs to be amazing or a total bomb” because then, too, you know where you stand.  Either you’d jump at the chance to hang out with them again, or you’d avoid them like they were diseased.  Now they’re that guy that you have as a standby.  You know, the one that you used to take to parties and things that you didn’t feel like going to by yourself...but you’d never consider actually DATING because you just don’t feel that “thing”.

Posted by Ann M.  on  06/18  at  08:16 PM

We’re trying to find the right match, too! funny you should post about “couple dating!” LOL! I hope you find a “good match” soon.  Hey...at least you kicked Will under the table and not the husband by accident...now that would have ended your chances right there!

Here’s to finding the right “love connection!”

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brittny I'm B-Love. I've just returned to America after spending three years in Kuwait with my husband Mr. B-Love and our two maltese, Boz and Lucy. We recently added two more doggies to our family, Rocky and Teddy. I love weight training, OU football, and lazy weekends. Buckle up and get ready for my constant embarrassing moments, continual madness at a new job, and my daily effort to rely on Christ while adjusting to life back in the real world.


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