Will and I had “The Talk” yesterday.
“The Talk” is one of those conversations most of you had soon after getting married. In fact, I’d venture to say that 99% of couples had The Talk soon after marriage.
Only weirdos wait five years to have The Talk.
Yes- five whole years. Did you know people have gone to college, graduated, and been in the workforce for a whole year in this amount of time?
Yet we never had The Talk.
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I’m talking about The Talk like you know exactly what I’m talking about.
Sorry.
Sometimes I think I’ve told you things before I actually have.
The Talk.
About kids.
And when.
And how many.
The Talk.
Will and I were discussing our house, the future, etc. and I felt the need to have The Talk.
It’s not like I felt we needed to have it after five years of marriage, I don’t think not having The Talk is bad- it’s all about the dynamics of your relationship- I just thought I’d throw it out there and get a feel for things.
So I did.
And I was surprised by the answer.
I won’t tell you what all was said, but it was a really good, deep, thorough discussion. I felt good having it.We had The Talk and at the end Will simply looked at me and said, “And if something changes in the way we feel, we’ll let each other know.”
I agreed.
It took us five years to have The Talk and establish “The Plan (ha ha- yeah because God never changes those, right?),” but I think it was perfect timing.
I gave Will a hug and went about getting ready for the day.
So I’m not going to spill the contents here. I’ll simply say the same thing Will did- if something changes, I’ll let you know- and you me well enough to know that I will!
Have a good Monday. I hope you’re off and enjoying it for those that have to work- like me.
So, we are way weirder than you guys!! I’m glad it went well. It seems like it would be a scary talk..... :-| hahaha
Oh, THAT talk. Hope you are both content with the decision that you made and are more relaxed now that the talk has been had.